WHY DO WE HAVE TO STOP HAVING FUN?

I find maturity to be highly over rated! Remember when we were kids and could play for hours just running through the sprinklers, or having a squirt gun fight, playing swing the statue? Well when is the day we are supposed to stop playing? I say the day we die, and not a second sooner.

One of my favorite things to do is running around the house with my sweety tickling, or sticking an ice cube down his back... you always end up in a giggling, laughing heap somewhere in the house with him on top of you... (Never a bad thing) and getting some quality kissing time in.

Maybe one of the keys to having fun is the physical contact part of it? The more physical contact in a relationnship the better! Women see that as non-sexual physical affection and the more of that we get, the happier and sexier we feel, and you know what that leads to. If not see the books on the affair proofing page.

FLIRTING

Who doesn't love to flirt? My kids say I flirt with everyone.... I see it as just being fun and friendly, but it's definately an easy way to keep things alive in your relationship.

Affair Proofing Tip #5 If you aren't flirting with your guy or girl.. who is? DO IT!

How you flirt? What did you do when you first met?

GUYS

• Did you look at her face when she talked, listened intently and then let her know what you were thinking about what she just said? Women LOVE for you to show that you are paying attention.
• Touching! Touch her arm, her hair, a little neck massage, the small of her back as you open the door for her... Oh yeah.. it's not old fashioned, it's good manners and they are NOT out of style. Women LOVE non-sexual touch often as much or more as sexual touching... and it helps put us in the mood.
• Take care of her. Is she cold? Give her your coat, turn up the heat, put your arm around her.
• HOLD HANDS! You take her hand... it melts our hearts.
• Playful sexual banter, whisper in her ear in public.. even if it's silly, it feels intimate because you whispered it.
• Text Messaging - Are you a guy who has a hard time saying things outloud? Well a text message is an easy fun way to tell your lady that you are thinking of her. You can text outrageous things you would never say in person and it can lead to a very sexy night.
• Leave notes hidden in places for your girl. Under her pillow, by her sink, in the refridgerator, on her car seat. They don't have to be elaborate.. we are easy! Just a heart with an "I LOVE YOU" or a note saying you can't wait to see us tonight.

LADIES

• Touching! Men loved to be admired. If your guy works out, touch his arms alot, after all he pumps those weights to look good for YOU, make sure you let him know you notice and you appreciate it.
• Massage - Don't wait for him to tell you his neck is tense when he gets home from work, his neck is always tense, and he always loves when you take care of him physically and it teaches him how touch in a non-sexual way can feel amazing. He might even reciprocate.
• Notes and text messaging - So easy and so fun! Food with a note always goes well for my guy. He gets home before I do often times, so I will leave him chocolate kisses arranged in X's and O's on his desk with a sweet or sexy note.. it puts a smile on his face and makes him glad to come home.
• A little Cyber Sex? Yes, you are consenting adults and it can be really fun to write out your fantasies back and for that you might be too shy to talk about in person. Give it a try before you judge!
• Look nice - I don't mean pearls and pumps, but we get ourselves dressed up to go to work or out with our girlfriends, shouldn't our partner get at LEAST the same amount of effort from us? Good hygeine, fresh breath, freshly showered, hair done, a touch of makeup and his favorite perfume.

Affair Proof Tip #6 Remember that the ladies that your guy sees all day long are looking their best. Make it hard for him to even think about other women