Sweet Talk That Wow a Man
From an early age, men get told again and again, say nice things, be sweet to a woman, value her for everything.
But men are really the more fragile when it comes to their ego than women are. Most men say they wish they received more regular compliments from their partner.They don't need it constantly, but if you want to keep them coming back for more, give up a little sweet talk.
"Your arms seem much bigger today.. have you been working on them?"
Guys have doubts about their bodies as much if not more than women do, especially if they are in their 40's. Men can be just as paranoid about the way their bodies look as women can be. In fact, nearly 90 percent of men in a national Men, Love & Sex survey say there's at least one body part they'd like to change (42 percent saying they want a new gut). They don't want you to lie to them, but saying something encouraging, can help them get to the gym a little more often so the next time you say it their arms really ARE bigger!
"Laugh at Him!"
Not in a bad way, but because he says or does something funny. Guys like to feel like people see them as having a good sense of humor. Giving them a genuine laugh goes high up on a guys list of a good compliment.
"Wow."
During sex, after sex, when he lifts a big box when you are moving in with him... Doesn't matter, just stroke his ego with this tiny word and his chest will be puffed up for days.
"You the man."
Guys hear this all the time. From other guys. They hear it at work, on the golf course, and when one dude from the group buys the beer, but if it comes from his newest and cutest football chick, he'll see the fun, sporty girl that is a part of the beautiful sweet woman he is falling for.
"The kids just adore you."
More than 50 percent of men say that their families -- more so than work and salary -- are what defines them most as men, says a Men's Health Magazine article. He wants to be your hero and the kids hero more than any sales award or golf game he can win. Also REALLY important is to uplift and uphold him in front of his kids, your kids, whoever you are sharing your home with.Rrespect from their ladies and loved one's is one of a man's #1 need. See Affair Proofing your Relationship tips here.
"Ask him what he thinks?"
Society on TV and in movies seems to delight on cutting men down, and seeing them as the "stupider" of the sexes.. Think of Raymond on "Something About Raymond" or the guys on "Friends". You are with him because you think he's smart and witty and wonderful... Right? So make sure he knows you value his opinions.
"Talk a Little Dirty "
It's true.. they want you to be a lady in the kitchen and his wench in the bedroom. Men love nothing more than to hear you going crazy while they are making love to you. If they like you to talk a little dirty, or call him a fun pet name... what's the harm? It build sexual intimacy, and keeps it fun and light after the lights go out.
"Keep it Fun."
Looks fade, and bodies get softer, but if you can keep the fun alive and well by just coming up with some fun "traditions" that you can start at any time. How about every time he is sick or hurts himself, you have a fun little "nurses" outfit you throw on to bring him his chicken soup or bandaid. It is sure to bring a smile to his face, and maybe even speed his cure.
"I want you."
What a guy really wants to hear is that he's the total package, and this acknowledgement of that -- whether it's referring to bedroom behavior or relationship stability -- is the ultimate compliment of them all. Tell him in person, email, note, text message carrier pigeon, it doesn't matter. Just say the words.
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